Identity among others
By Ira Ernawati
Many problems come around us. It usually happens because of misunderstanding. I think, the basic cause of this problem is because we do not really understand others. As like words ‘Tak Kenal Maka Tak Sayang’ which is very popular in our country. People never know others well if they do not really understand them. Even they are close friend but it does not guarantee that they have understood each other well.
In other hand, I say nothing is impossible. It means that I believe that everyone can understand each other. The differences are just in the way in understanding and also the process of understanding itself. By understanding life will be easy. So we can not be stubborn, because basically we can not live without others.
Understanding others is really important but we can not lie that it is difficult to do. It needs willing to do it. it must come from our heart. Moreover in our country which has different culture, religion, race, and ethnic group from Sabang until Merauke. All the differences that I have mentioned show different identity of everyone.
If we understand the identity of someone. It will make us easy to understand him / her. In the fact, many people can not do that easily included me. When people meet someone whom they do not know yet. It usually makes them having prejudice, stereotype and sometime discriminates him / her because they different. What do you think about it?
For me, it is not really surprising. Many people have prejudice and stereotype to others whom they do not know yet. And I think it is bad thing that we should avoid. So to over come this case, we should change our mindset about differences that difference is not always bad and the key to solve it is understanding.
Here the example of how important understanding is, when Javanese people meet Batak people, first time they think that Batak are rude and rampageus. It is because they do not understand Batak’s background or behavior. Hence they have own prejudice and also stereotype that Batak are not good people. Then Javanese only feels comfort with their group. Whereas, Batak people are not like what Javanese thought. Ya.. We see that Batak always speak loudly as like angry people. Actually that is just their habit but for Javanese people. It looks impolite because they are not used to speak like that.
It is just one example of case that happens around us. If we analysis deeply it is only about different habit. It is about different identity but if we do not care to this case, it can be big problem among ethnic. Here, Humanistic Study has big impact to help us in facing and preparing our future. Then as teacher candidate, we should also perceptive to this case even we will meet and have students from different culture and background.